I can't imagine how a non-smoker could marry a smoker.  Such is the case with a couple I know.  The guy smokes; the girl doesn't.  Doesn't he taste like an ashtray?  Doesn't everything you own smell like smoke?  Don't you feel weird that you have a very high chance of outliving him and of witnessing his brutal death from lung cancer?  It's one thing if you're old and you got married before anybody knew anything bad about smoking.  And it's another thing if you both smoke.  But it's entirely different to be a young couple, full of knowledge of the effects of smoking (both the cancer-y effects and the it-smells-gross effects), and be entirely ok with marriage, or even just a relationship.  It boggles the mind. #lifestyle