When I used to work at Schering-Plough, my boss-guy always referred to one of my co-workers as "Joe, the heavy-set guy".  Every time he mentioned him, even after I had been there for 10 weeks, he still said the part about him being heavy-set.  Plus, this heavy-set guy Joe sat in the cubicle right next to mine, so I knew who my boss-guy was talking about every single time.  It makes me wonder:  what do people say about me when they refer to me?  "Go talk to Dave, the skinny nerdy one."  "I need to go see Dave, the one with stuff always hanging out his nose."  What if there's some major physical attribute or character flaw that I'm overlooking that people have adopted as my description?  And what about that day when I find out?  "You think I have a big butt?"  "I have tons of ear hair?"  That'll be a bad day. #psychology