I don't like people who wink at me.  I probably wouldn't mind if it was a girl, but it's usually a guy.  It's not a romantic or flirty thing, and I know that.  But it still feels romantic and flirty, which makes me feel gross.  It usually happens when somebody says something that has an implied sarcasm or falseness to it.  They give me a little wink to let me know it's sarcastic or intentionally false.  If you need to depend on physical language to convey your sarcasm, you should get better at delivering sarcasm.  Stop winking at me. #psychology